Singles in the Workplace

by | Feb 7, 2016 | ALL THINGS SINGLE, singlism, social and professional support, work, Workplace

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Are single people treated unfairly in the workplace? Here are some of my writings on this topic and other issues related to single people and their work and careers.

 SINGLISM IN THE WORKPLACE

 Single workers aren’t there to pick up the slack for their married bosses and colleagues

 Best story I’ve ever read on singlism in the workplace

 The many ways singles are treated unfairly at work

 When getting to work from home is someone else’s judgment call, will singles be disadvantaged?

 Singles have fewer benefits than married couples — but are slowly gaining more

 Why it is unfair to expect single people to cover for everyone else at work

 Married workers heading out early and singles staying late

 Some bosses think it is fine to pay single people less than their married coworkers

How single women get devalued in the workplace because they are single women (by Joan DelFattore)

 Married mother has different view of singlism, matrimania

 Creating a singles-friendly workplace: How would you do it?

 Enlighten your workplace: From speaking out to buying an office kid

 Do co-workers and bosses expect you, single person, to cover for everyone else over the holidays?

 OTHER WORK-RELEVANT TOPICS

 Sabbaticals for singles?

 Changing Careers: Is It Different for Singles?

 Making it on your own: Are these successful entrepreneurs single at heart?

 Not just money: Why older singles want to keep working

 Singles value meaningful work – and did so even in high school

 

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Singlism: What It Is, Why It Matters, and How to Stop It

 

The Best of Single Life: A New Collection

by | Sep 14, 2014 | ALL THINGS SINGLE, alone time, Books about singles, demographics, family, Friendship, happiness, media, sex, Single at different ages, work

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I’ve just put together a collection of 65 of my writings on single life in a book called The Best of Single Life. I think these are some of my most empowering articles, making a strong positive and utterly undefensive case for single life as the good life. In the book, I explain what I think is best about single life, for those who are as enthusiastic about living single as I am, as well as for those who do not want to stay single, but do want to live their single lives to the fullest while they are single.

The Best of Single Life is available in paperback here and here, and as an ebook here. The book includes 8 sections:

  1. Why Singles Are Thriving – Despite All You’ve Heard to the Contrary
  2. Single Life: We Chose It
  3. Mocking Those ‘Why Are You Single’ Lists
  4. The Good Life and the Successful Life
  5. Savoring Our Solitude: Choosing to Spend Time Alone
  6. Valuing Our Relationships: Choosing to Spend Time with Others
  7. Sex and the Single Person: Have It Your Way – or Just Skip It
  8. Are We Missing Out by Being Single – or Are They?

Here’s a sampling of some of the 65 articles in the collection:

  • 7 secrets of successful single people
  • Who wrote the book of love? Happy single people
  • Fear not: The advantages of people unafraid to be single
  • Are single people more resilient than everyone else?
  • Why aren’t married people any happier than singles? A Nobel Prize winner’s answer
  • Wedding porn doesn’t turn us on: Age at first marriage has never been higher
  • The last ‘why are you single’ list you will ever need
  • Elements of the good life: Our list is too short
  • Sweet solitude: The benefits it brings and the special strengths of the people who enjoy it
  • The happy loner
  • Best things about living alone – for people who mean it
  • Single, no children: Who’s your family?
  • If you are single, will you grow old alone? Results from 6 nations
  • Who keeps siblings together when they become adults?
  • Bigger, broader meanings of love and romance
  • Getting married and getting sex (or not)
  • Asexuals: Who are they and why are they important?
  • Are monogamous relationships really better?
  • 23 ways singles are better
  • What you miss by doing what everyone else does
  • Top 8 reasons not to marry
  • Keeping marriage alive with affairs, asexuality, polyamory, and living apart
  • How many married people wish they were single?
  • The end of marriage

I hope you enjoy it! (You can find my other books here.)

Singles in the Workplace: Issues, Values, and Action

by | Jul 8, 2013 | ALL THINGS SINGLE, singles rights and advocacy, Singlism and matrimania, work, Workplace

Questions about singles in the workplace are coming up more and more often. That’s a good thing. For too long, conversations about the workplace, and about achieving “balance,” have focused on people who are married with children.

Here, I have put together a collection of links to various discussions (mostly mine) of singles in the workplace. There are four sections: two on the issues facing singles in the workplace, one on single people’s values, and one on possible actions that can be taken to create better workplaces for single people.

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Flying Solo Near 60: Guest Post by Jacqueline Marshall

by | Nov 14, 2011 | ALL THINGS SINGLE, alone time, happiness, Single at different ages, Single women, work

Sitting in my favorite chair, sipping a cup of dark roast, I realized my 59th birthday is three months away. After a moment of terror, I fell into thinking about my life so far and where 58 years has “brought” me: I am approaching 60, was laid-off 6 months ago, I’m unattached, and starting my fifth career. The only constant in my life I could come up with, the one thread tying the patchwork pieces together, is depression.

“Wow,” I said to my cats, “the pinnacle of almost six decades of living! I never could have imagined.” Then, I did what anyone in this situation would do, I laughed. I don’t know what else to do with life sometimes. Besides, though my pinnacle of achievement is not as stupendous as I thought it would be by now, I’m happy (when I’m not depressed).

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