No Wedding Band? Then It’s OK to Get Killed

I just watched an episode of the TV show, Chicago Code. I wasn’t finding it all that interesting and should have just turned it off, but I got the impression that the lead character was a single woman, and she was in a high-powered position. So I thought I’d keep watching to see how she was portrayed. Jennifer Beals plays Teresa Colvin, who is the Superintendent of Police in tough, gritty Chicago. Not bad.

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Online Guide by Topic, and Singlism Update

Two quick notes. Last year, I wrote a post for Living Single in which I gathered some links to previous posts and listed them by topic. I just added a new category, SOLITUDE, and updated some of the other ones. Click here for the updated version. It now includes these topics:

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Did You Notice the New Yorker Line Drawings This Week?

Cover by J. J. Sempe

I actually don’t read the New Yorker only for the cartoons. I also look at the line drawings. These days, they are thematic, sometimes telling a story of sort as they amble across the pages of an issue. This week, the first drawing in the series caught my attention – it was a stick figure, on p. 26, of an adult holding a sign that said, “I’m happy to be single.”

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My Book-Publishing Backstory: Part 2, the Contemporary Independent Way

In my previous post here at All Things Single, I told you about my adventures in traditional book publishing. That’s the route I took with Singled Out. Now let me tell you about my experiences with nontraditional publishing. At the end, I’ll invite you to share your experiences for possible inclusion in two books that are in the works.

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A Personal Perspective on Taking on Singlism

When I first focused on the study of singles and singlism, I was a tenured full professor at a major university and I thought I would continue to be a full-time academic until the day I retired — which I assumed would be decades into the future. That was in the late 1990s. I never would have guessed that by the year 2000, my planned one-year sabbatical would turn into something else entirely.

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