The number of single people has been growing for more than a half-century. Of all Americans who are unmarried, the biggest proportion of them, by far, are people who have never been married. Yet not much research has focused specifically on this group. Maybe that’s in part because the percentage of people who stayed single all their life has, in the past, been fairly small. But that may be changing.

There is one exception to my claim that lifelong single people are rarely studied. There are many studies examining the link between marital status and various measures of health and well-being, and those studies sometimes include people who are never married as a separate group. The goal of those studies, though, is nearly always to try to show that married people are doing better than everyone else – a conclusion that ranks somewhere between vastly overstated and just plain wrong. You can find discussions of those studies here. Below are answers to some other questions about people who have always been single.

 

How many people have been single all their life?

Record number of Americans will stay single for life

What has changed for single Americans in the last decade?

How many people choose to be single?

How many Americans want to be single? Results from 5 studies

The number of lifelong single people has increased in all developed nations

Are there more lifelong single women or men?

 

Strengths and resilience of lifelong single people: The evidence

Two of the profound rewards of staying single

Men and women who have always been single are doing fine

Lifelong single women in their 70s: You got a problem?

Singles value meaningful work – and did so even in high school

Married people enjoy higher status but no higher life satisfaction or self-esteem than lifelong single people: 30-nation study

17 things no one ever told you about single people

 

Happily single for life

If you’ve been single all your life, you have a lot to be proud of

Yes, we really do want lifelong singlehood

The deep rewards of a deeply single life

Single life as a ‘satisfying choice and a profound threat’

Lots of people want to be her: A single woman with no children

How to be happily single for life

A positive psychology of single life

 

Thriving despite the stereotyping and stigmatizing

Lifelong single people targeted with more than their share of stereotyping

The emotional life of single people

That spinster stigma study: Others ignore you or they are intrusive

When will we be able to say, without getting ridiculed, that we want to stay single?

What no one ever told you about people who are single

 

Some questions about staying single

Single, No Children: Who Is Your Family?

No, I’m not married. Why do you ask? (with Joan DelFattore)

Why stay single? Top 5 reasons

What is the meaning of those top reasons for staying single?

Are lifelong single people more introverted than people who marry?

7 questions to help you decide if you should stay single

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Singled Out: How Singles Are Stereotyped, Stigmatized, and Ignored, and Still Live Happily Ever After

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Best of Single Life

 

 

 

 

 

 

Alone: The badass psychology of people who like being alone

 

 

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